We made no agreement that this would happen, and it became a sore point for me, but I just went about my work. More and more, she withheld sex for the smallest reasons, basically as a method of trying to assume control in the relationship.Īfter a while, I stopped asking. One factor which helped me do this, and I'm not saying this to be mean, but as a fact: she was not very good in bed. She had a sexual adventurousness quotient of zero. Funny how when the ring goes on the finger it must squeeze really hard on the nerve that controls the desire to give blowjobs. In return for her oral disinterest, I stopped trying to forge my way into that overgrown Amazon Rain Forest she had down there. I masturbated to online porn a lot, which included more and more of those forbidden practices, in which I'd always fostered a secret interest: bisexual, transgender and gay subject matter (she never caught me watching it). Eventually, she started fucking the guy we hired to put in a new bathroom for us.
To tell the truth, it was the lying rather than the sex that upset me.
Very few cases of transmission through oral sex have been reported amongst gay men despite the continued practice of oral sex (often with ejaculation into the mouth) by large numbers of men over many years.
Infection via receptive fellatio (‘doing it’) is biologically plausible and may happen occasionally. However, infection via insertive fellatio (‘having it done to you’) is probably exceedingly low risk. There are no reliable reports of HIV being transmitted from the mouth to the genitals.Ĭases of transmission via cunnilingus are extremely rare, and the reliability of these reports is questionable. How could HIV infect the mouth and throat? There are no reported cases of HIV transmission through kissing. HIV is not able to infect most cells in the mouth. Only one cell type found in the mouth is vulnerable to HIV infection (Campo). The tissue of the mouth and oesophagus is also very thick compared with genital tissues, and fluids stay in contact with it for a very short time because swallowing clears the mouth regularly.